"Quit the wrong stuff.
Stick with the right stuff.
Have the guts to do one or the other." ~Seth Godin
"Quit or be exceptional. Average is for losers." ~Seth Godin
"If is scares you, it might be a good thing to try." ~Seth Godin
"All our successes are the same. All our failures, too.
We succeed when we do something remarkable.
We fail when we give up too soon.
We succeed when we are the best in the world at what we do.
We fail when we get distracted by tasks we don't have the guts to quit." ~Seth Godin
Not sure? Here are questions to ask yourself.
Is this a dip, a cliff, or cul-de-sac?
If you are in a cul-de-sac, how can you change it into a dip?
Is my persistence going to pay off in the long run?
Am I engaged with just one person (or organization), or do my actions in this situation spill over into the entire marketplace?
When should I quit? I need to decide now, not when I'm in the middle of it, and not when part of me is begging to quit.
If I quit this task, will it increase my ability to get through the Dip on something more important?
If I'm going to quit anyway, is there something dramatic I can do instead that might change the game?
Should I really be calling on IBM? Should I really be trying to get on Oprah?
What chance does this project have to be the best in the world?
Who decides what best is?
Can we make the world smaller?
Does it make sense to submit a resume to every single ad on Craigslist, just to see what happens?
Is doing nothing better than planning on quitting and then doing something great?
Are you avoiding the remarkable as a way of quitting without quitting?
Speed Reading Stats (h:mm:ss)
1st Read: Sneeze = 73 pages
2nd Read: Bless you = 73 pages
3rd Read: Sneeze = 73 pages
Did I speed read it? Hells no! The book is
73 pages long. Common on people...that
would take me less than a sneeze.
Godin, S. (2007). The Dip: A Little Book That Teaches You When
to Quit (and When to Stick) (p. 96). New York, NY: Penguin Group.
Winners Quit All the Time
"Quitters never win and winners never quit." ~Vince Lombardi
Bad Advice!
Winners quit the right stuff at the right time!
The Infinity Problem
There's just too much of it!
Choices...cheapest, best, biggest...
Quitting is Not the Same as Failing
Is that the best you can do?
Fail
When you don't know when to quit
When you refuse to settle
When you compromise
Biggest Mistake They Made in School
Being well-rounded is the secret to success. = FALSE
Exceptional = BEST
Coping
Doesn't lead you anywhere
Mediocre work
Wastes time & energy
Pride
Enemy of the smart quitter
Wounded pride doesn't kill you
Being the Best in the World is Seriously Underrated
Surprising value of being the best in the world.
US culture = Superstars, superstars, superstars
Zipf's Law
The best is the best.
Everything from #2 on down does way less.
Reason #1 Matters
Limited time/opportunity = intentionally narrow our choices to those at the top.
Not a linear scale.
It's a curve...with a drastic, huge drop-off after #1.
"Scarcity makes being at the top worth something." ~Seth Godin
Why?
People quit long before they create something that makes it to the top.
What does "Best in the World" Mean?
Best
For them
For right now
Based on what they believe
Based on what they know
Subjective = consumer decides
In the World
Their world
The world they have access to
Selfish view = their definition, not yours
Based on convenience and preferences
Larger, smaller world
We can look "everywhere" for what we want
Categories are getting smaller, more specialized
Magic of Thinking Quit
Strategic Quitting
Ability to see you are in a cul-de-sac or approaching a cliff = GET OUT!
Conscious decision
Quitting the tactics that are not working for your long-term strategy
Reactive Quitting
Quit when it is painful.
Serial Quitting
Always looking for the next best thing.
Are you always standing in line? Too inpatient for your line to pay off?
Rededication
An new strategy to break the problem apart.
Taking a new look, new approach = NOT static
The Dip
Almost everything worth doing has a DIP.
Process
Beginning
Interesting & good feedback
Rapid learning = keeps focus
Middle
Time between beginning and mastery
Going from easy to hard.
CEOs
25-year dip before being a CEO
Needed to suck it up
Keep his head down
Do what he was told
Surviving the Dip
Lean into the Dip
Push harder
Change the rules
Whittle at it = doesn't last as long
The Cul-de-Sac
Dead End
Work, Work, and nothing changes
Not worse, not better
It just is
Get off it...FAST
Cost of staying = just too high
The Cliff
You can't quit until you fall off the edge = everything falls apart
These are pretty rare.
Think cigarette smoking = cancer/emphysema
The Dip is Where Success Is
Brave thing
Tough it out = end up on the other side
Mature thing
Don't bother starting = you aren't going to make it anyway
Stupid Thing
Start, get it best shot, & quit in middle of the DIP
Short-term decision
If it's hard or hurts = stop
7 Reason You Might Fail to Become the Best in the World
YOU QUIT
1. You run out of time
2. You run out of money
3. You get scared
4. You're not serious about it
5. You lose interest or enthusiasm or settle for being mediocre
6. You focus on the short term instead of the long (the short term gets hard)
7. You pick the wrong thing at which to be the best in the world
Curves You Might Have Seen
Manufacturing Dip
Ramping up for production = $
Sales Dip
Upgrading to a professional sales group
Education Dip
Learning something new
Risk Dip
Invest to get through the Dip
Relationship Dip
Invest in relationships when it is difficult, not urgent
Conceptual Dip
Abandon your assumptions
Ego Dip
Give up control
Distribution Dip
Getting to scarcity is hard
Questions to Ask Before Quitting
1. Am I panicking?
You can always quit later...wait until you are done panicking
2. Who am I trying to influence?
A person is like climbing a wall...it may get taller before you clear it.
A market is like climbing a hill...it is a slow process that pays off.