1. non verbal
   1. looks
      1. gazes into your eyes
      2. eyes light up when seeing you
   2. smiles regularly with you
   3. invades your private space
      1. wants to be close to you
   4. looks for ways to touch you
      1. fixing clothes
      2. laughing and touching
      3. tapping/touching and hitting in fun joking ways
   5. sit near you
      1. angle their body towards you
      2. feet pointed towards you
      3. women balance shoes on toes
   6. learn towards you
      1. listening to you
   7. open posture
      1. not arms forlded
   8. flicks hair away from face
      1. gives full view of face
   9. men open legs
   10. men hands on hips with fingure pointing to crutch
2. verbal
   1. wants to talk to you often
      1. light converstaion
      2. advice
      3. mentally stimulating conversation
      4. finding out whats happening with you
   2. Warm tones and soft start up
   3. discuses life with you
      1. joys
      2. feelings
      3. needs
      4. difficulties
      5. hopes
      6. dreams and desires
      7. accomplishments
      8. wishes
   4. builds you up
      1. commends
      2. congratulates
      3. compliments
      4. encourages
      5. sympathise and empathises
   5. keeps his words
      1. does what he says he will do
   6. listens
      1. responds appropiately
      2. qualifies what you are saying
   7. doesnt
      1. cut you off
      2. dominate converstation
      3. criticise
      4. put you down
      5. insults
      6. shouts you down
      7. give you silent treatment
      8. condemn
      9. sneer
3. energy
4. attitude
   1. care
      1. have a conscience
         1. avoids hurting
         2. apologises when wrong
   2. respects your principles
      1. spiritual
      2. borders
   3. has clear borders and principles
   4. calls you on your stuff
   5. doesn't take crap from you
   6. challenges you
   7. firm but gentle
   8. sincere and genuine
   9. transparent and honest
   10. willing to learn
   11. wants to make you happy
   12. surprises you
   13. willing to clear up misunderstandings
5. let you in his/her world
   1. time
      1. phyisical
      2. phone
      3. text
      4. email
      5. video chat
   2. introduces you
      1. friends
      2. family
      3. colleagues
   3. takes you around with him
      1. social events
      2. even business events
   4. talks
      1. about problems/issues in life
      2. includes you future plans
         1. dreams
         2. desires
         3. goals
      3. consults and ask for advice
         1. uses the advice given
      4. tell you about history
         1. childhood events
            1. good
            2. bad
6. Actions
   1. gifts
   2. spends time
   3. do things for you
      1. go out of his way to please you
   4. involves you in projects and activities
   5. stays with you when out and about