- From "The worry cure" by Robert L. Leahy
- Cognitive distortions are simply ways that our mind convinces us of something that isn’t really true. These inaccurate thoughts are usually used to reinforce negative thinking or emotions - telling ourselves things that sound rational and accurate, but really only serve to keep us feeling bad about ourselves.
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l. Mind reading
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You assume that you know what people think without having sufficient evidence of their thoughts
- "He thinks I'm a loser."
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2. Fortune-telling
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You predict the future—that things will get worse or that there is danger ahead
- "I'll fail that exam," "l won't get the job."
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3. Catastrophizlng
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You believe that what has happened or will happen will be so awful and unbearable that you won't be able to stand it
- "It would be terrible if I failed."
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4. Labeling
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You assign global negative traits to yourself and others
- "I'm undesirable," "He's a rotten person."
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5. Discounting positives
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You claim that the positives that you or others attain are trivial
- "That's what wives are supposed to do, so it doesn't count when she's nice to me"
- "Those successes were easy, so they don't matter."
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6. Negative filter
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You focus almost exclusively on the negatives and seldom notice the positives
- "Look at all of the people who don't like me."
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7. Overgeneralizing
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You perceive a global pattern of negatives on the basis of a single incident
- "This generally happens to me. I seem to fail at a lot of things."
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8. All-or-nothing thinking
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You view events or people in all-or-nothing terms
- "I get rejected by everyone"
- "It was a waste of time."
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9. Shoulds
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You interpret events in terms of how things should be rather than simply focusing on what is
- "I should do well. If I don't, then I'm a failure."
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10. Personalizing
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You attribute a disproportionate amount of the blame to yourself for negative events and fail to see that certain events are also caused by others
- "The marriage ended because I failed."
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11. Blaming
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You focus on the other person as the source of your negative feelings and refuse to take responsibility for changing yourself
- "She's to blame for the way I feel now"
- "My parents caused all my problems."
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12. unfair comparisons
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You interpret events in terms of standards that are unrealistic—for example, you focus primarily on others who do better than you and find yourself inferior in the comparison
- "She's more successful than I am"
- "Others did better than I did on the test."
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13. Regret orientation
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You focus on the idea that you could have done better in the past, rather than on what you can do better now
- "I could have had a better job if I had tried"
- "l shouldn't have said that."
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14. What if?
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You keep asking a series of questions about what if something happens, and fail to be satisfied with any of the answers
- "Yeah, but what if I get anxious, and can't catch my breath?"
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15. Emotional reasoning
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You let your feelings guide your interpretation of reality
- "l feel depressed, therefore my marriage is not working out."
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16. Inability to disconfirm
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You reject any evidence or arguments that might contradict your negative thoughts
- "I'm unlovable—my friends hang out with me only because they must feel sorry for me"
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17. Judgment focus
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You view yourself, others, and events in terms of evaluations of "good" and "bad" or "superior" and "inferior," rather than simply describing, accepting, or understanding
- "I didn't perform well in college"
- "If I take up tennis, I won't do well"
- "Look how successful she is. I'm not successful."