1. be careful not to lose the sexual attraction
2. healthy relationship
   1. love style
      1. creative
      2. emotional
      3. tradtional
      4. ratiional
   2. compatibility
   3. lovers should be friends
      1. friendship is more solid than romantic love
         1. when things turn bad
         2. when life in trouble
         3. can speak your mind
3. what's love
   1. love !=lust
4. severn love truth
   1. we all want someone who care us and we care
   2. we want someone who stand by us, no matter what
   3. knowing someone loves u enables u to dare to be urslef
   4. knowing ur are loved lets u to conquer fears and reach new heights
   5. the desire for love motivates most of ur behavior
   6. most pain and problems are caused by lack of love
   7. the love that exist is the love uor create
5. the five requirement of true love
   1. over time
   2. sharing and supporting through happy and sad
   3. emotional feelingn, logic, physical attraction and intuitive sense
   4. quieting expectation and romantic imagines
   5. tuned in to the person, not due to desperation
6. true love tests
   1. thoughtfullness
   2. unconditional love
   3. feel secure
   4. feel good when around each other
   5. can be honest
   6. he/she respond to ur request even when he/she does not like
   7. life and attitude compatitbility towards life
7. Love somebody without condition and expect of return
8. love at first sight needs to be tested by time
   1. wait at least half a year
   2. observe him/her dealling with friends and others
   3. oberve during time of stress
9. love inventory
   1. empathy
   2. trust
   3. honesty
   4. courage
   5. sharing
10. don't be a love/intimacy/sex junkie
    1. be ur self
11. five love myths
    1. all u need is love
    2. u true love is theonly person who wan meant for u
    3. if it is true love, u will know it immediately
    4. if the sex is good, it must be love
    5. find true love, u will be happy ever after