1. Check-In with discharge
   1. Name and calling in from?
   2. Something going well in your life?
2. Mini ... 5 mins each way - take the top off
3. Comments, questions regards reading the manual
   1. My favorite - pps 41 to 56 - also fire story
4. Conflict resolution
   1. Small, easily frightened, powerless/dependent, vulnerable, alone
      1. Restimulated behaviors (sporadic continuum)
         1. Seek power-over, superiority & dominance
         2. Hide self, acquiesce, self-subordinate
   2. Restimulation (largely) eliminates thinking
      1. Sometimes obvious
      2. Often hidden/masked
         1. Varied awareness
      3. Results in patterned, rigid & distorting behavours
         1. May yield 'disagreements'
         2. Can escalate into 'attacks'
   3. Attacks
      1. Often contain
         1. Attempts to canvas support
            1. Causing contagious restimultation
            2. "Piling on"
            3. Uproar, chaos, disintegration
      2. Interrupted by support people
         1. Restimulation MUST be dealt with first
            1. Use Guidelines procedure
5. Practice sessions
   1. Attacks
      1. Witnessed?
      2. Launched?
      3. Interrupted?
6. Guidelines
   1. a. counsel and discharge on the upset
      1. don't spread the upset - (don't use names)
      2. working on the related early hurts
         1. assume restimulation is in play
      3. counsel with someone who has a good relationship with the other
      4. no gossip
   2. b. see the real situation as clearly as possible
   3. c. think of possible ways to resolve the situation
   4. if a, b, and c do not resolve
      1. communicate directly with other person
         1. listen to one another
         2. likely resolve
   5. Still not resolved?
      1. request assistance
         1. an experienced Co-Counselor
         2. RC teacher
         3. appropriate Reference Person
   6. Still not resolved?
      1. engage next level of Reference Person.
7. Clarifications - observations
8. Next steps
   1. A highlight of today's class ...
   2. Something you are looking forward to ...
9. Into pairs or 3's for organizing sessions
   1. Leave when ready