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Combating Resistance:
Turning Pro
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Professionals vs Amateurs
- The amateur plays for fun. The pro plays for keeps.
- The amateur plays part-time. The pro plays full-time
- The amateur doesn't love the game enough. The pro loves it so much he dedicates his life to it.
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Principle of Priority
- You must know the difference between what's urgent and what's important
- You must do what's important first
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Qualities of the Professional
- We show up every day
- We show up no matter what
- We stay on the job all day
- We are committed over the long haul
- The stakes for us are high and real
- We accept remuneration for our labor
- We do not overidentify with our jobs
- We master the technique of our jobs
- We have a sense of humor about our jobs
- We receive praise or blame in the real world
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Aspects of the Professional
- Patient
- Seeks Order
- Demystifies
- Acts in the Face of Fear
- Accepts No Excuses
- Plays It As It Lays
- Is Prepared
- Does Not Show Off
- Dedicates Himself to Mastering Technique
- Does Not Hesitate to Ask For Help
- Distances Herself From Her Instrument
- Does Not Take Failure (or Success) Personally
- Endures Adversity
- Self-validates
- Recognizes Her Limitations
- Reinvents Himself
- Is Recognized By Other Pros
- You, INC.
- Keeps Coming On
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Beyond Resistance:
The Higher Realm
- Invisible psychic forces: Muses and Angels
- Invoking the Muse
- The Magic of Making a Start
- The most important thing about art is to work
- The process of self-revision and self-correction
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The Self vs. the Ego
- The Self wishes to create, to evolve
- The Ego likes things the way they are
- Master Fear: Fear That We Will Succeed
- The Authentic Self
- Territory vs. Hierarchy
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Don't be a Hack
- Of any activity you do, ask yourself: If I were the last person on the earth, would I still do it?
- We must do our work for its own sake, not for fortune or attention or applause
- Contempt for failure is our cardinal virtue
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Resistance:
Defining the Enemy
- Any act that rejects immediate gratification in favor of long-term growth, health, or integrity elicits Resistance
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Characteristics of Resistance
- Invisible
- Internal
- Insidious
- Implacable
- Impersonal
- Infallible
- Universal
- Never Sleeps
- Plays For Keeps
- Fueled by Fear
- Only Opposes in One Direction
- Most Powerful at the Finish Line
- Recruits Allies
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Symptoms
- Procrastination
- Sex
- Trouble
- Self-dramatization
- Self-medication
- Victimhood
- Choice of a Mate
- Unhapinness
- Fundamentalism
- Criticism
- Fear
- Self-doubt
- Love
- Fantasies About Being a Star
- Fear of Isolation
- Healing
- Seeking Support
- Rationalization