1. turn question
   1. How not where?
   2. Ask your self where would your potential partner be hanging out
      1. job
      2. recreation
      3. friends
2. how
   1. categories
      1. Public places
         1. walks
         2. libraries
         3. supermarkets
         4. bus stops
         5. out and about
         6. DIY stores
      2. generic events
         1. singles events
         2. seminars
         3. concerts
         4. sports events
         5. conferences
      3. single settings
         1. ads
         2. online dating sites
         3. single events
      4. target rich places and events
         1. men classes
         2. dancing classess
         3. cooking classes
         4. golfing
         5. football
      5. Special interest activities
         1. sports
         2. meetings
         3. clubs
         4. classes
      6. Higly aligned places
         1. political groups
         2. churches
         3. campaign
            1. stop hunger
            2. stop blood shed
            3. green campaign
            4. domestic violence
      7. your network
         1. Start with who you know
            1. friends
            2. relatives
            3. colleagues
            4. acquaintances
   2. go out everyday someone is looking for you
   3. make new friends
      1. 1 new general friend a week
      2. 1 new special interest friend a month
         1. someone who has qualities you are looking for
            1. doesn't matter what gender
            2. they would have similar friends
      3. 1 new opposite gender friend
         1. any friend
            1. age
            2. ethnic group
3. Create opportunity
   1. Volunteer
      1. charity
      2. events
      3. mans shop
      4. surveys and polls
      5. join a campaign
         1. poverty
         2. climate
         3. green
         4. relegious
   2. Create events
      1. parties
      2. social events
      3. get together
      4. focus group around your hobby
      5. Classes
      6. Start a campaign
4. What if you are shy?
   1. Get someone to intro you
   2. start with joining groups events you are interested in
   3. Don't start cold calling
   4. have an excuse to talk to people
      1. waiter
      2. events cordinator
      3. greeter at party/church/events
      4. survey and polls
   5. Wear a smile
   6. put yours in the environment
      1. someone will approach you
   7. make it easy for people to talk to you
      1. wear a badge
      2. a book/mag/newspaper
      3. clothes with writing
         1. uniform
         2. t-shirt
      4. unique hairstyle or item of clothing